Books, CDs and DVDs by TONY WHITE
Tony White, as the first winner of the Goulding award for excellence & 1994 inclusion in “International Who’s Who in Medicine”, has published a series of books that cover his writing.
He is a psychologist in private practice in Perth, Western Australia, and a clinical Teaching Member of the International Transactional Analysis Association. He trains and runs seminars throughout the world.
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Feelings, anger and
their management – CD
New eBook by Tony White
An eBook is an electronic book which includes a book as a PDF document. This is supported with a series of short movies which further describes various concepts in the eBook.
Table of contents (39 pages)
CHAPTER ONE – FAMILIES OF FEELINGS
CHAPTER TWO – TEMPORARY AND CHARACTER FEELINGS
The nature of temporary feelings, Feeling graph, The nature of character feelings, Separation scale
CHAPTER THREE – A WIDER VIEW OF ANGER
Four models of anger, Ethnology, Catharsis model of anger, Social learning theory
Cognitive theory, Anger and physical ills, The scientific evidence, Why anger is seen as bad, The positives of anger
CHAPTER FOUR – THE DIFFERENT WAYS ANGER CAN BE EXPRESSED
Ego states and anger, Adult ego state, Critical Parent, Free Child, Rebellious Child, Conforming Child, Projected anger, Displaced anger
3 Short movies.
1. Family of feelings movie (7 minutes).
Classification of feelings. Discussion of various feelings like sarcasm, resistance and rebellion. How to deal with the resistant person. Difference between despair and depression. The misdiagnosis of depression
2. Feeling graph (7 minutes)
Explanation of the feelings graph including feeling tension and release. Problems with unexpressed emotion including addiction to cigarettes and alcohol, or psychosomatic problems. The emotional over reactor including the hysteric personality and ways of responding to them. Rubberband feelings and how to deal with them.
3. Separation scale (8 minutes)
The separation scale from the emotional abandonment of a child to smothering it. Smothering can lead to a angry character or feelings of melancholy. The abandoned child can feel angry, scared or despairing depending on the degree of abandonment. $11.00
Counselling: How and why counsellors
do what they do (eBook) – CD
Table of contents (48 pages)
CHAPTER ONE – DIFFERENT COUNSELLING APPROACHES. Counselling the client from behind. Non directive counselling including the use of confrontation. The eclectic counsellor and what is the potent therapist. Stop being a counsellor and be yourself in counselling.
CHAPTER TWO – QUASI-COUNSELLING APPROACHES. The early demand and selecting a marriage partner. Life coaching, being a Rent-A-Friend counsellor and counselling without a treatment contract.
CHAPTER THREE – INDIVIDUALISM AS A NEUROSIS. Western counselling is far too individualistic in its view, hence marriage failure and the failure of marriage counselling to deal with it. Narcissism in the approach of western psychology. The need for western psychology to be more collectivist oriented.
CHAPTER FOUR – WHY BECOME A COUNSELLOR. People become counsellors to deal with their own emotional needs. The dangers of identifying with the client. The advantages working with clients who have similar issues to the counsellor.
CHAPTER FIVE – WHAT DOES A COUNSELLOR ACTUALLY SELL? Counsellors can sell hope, sell catharsis and sell belonging. The counsellor as a snake oil salesman in giving false hope. The desire to have the perfect mother, doing rebirths in counselling and use the counsellor as the perfect parent. $11.00
Child Sex Offenders
This eBook provides a new and innovative look at the entire area of child sex offenders. Historically this difficult area has remained stagnant, not evolved theoretically and not developed over time. The psychology of the child sex offender, his/her motives and methods of operation are looked at from a new perspective by Tony.
Presented in non-technical and understandable terminology the psychological processes which lead to this type of offending are described. This is useful when dealing with perpetrators and is also useful for victims when they are at the point in treatment when it is advantageous to understand the motives of the abuser. This can facilitate them not taking on the responsibility for the assault.
Tony develops a 3 stage system to assess the likelihood of reoffending. This system provides a numerical reading that will allow one to judge the potential for future offences. This not only applies for child sex offences but all instances of potential sexual assault such as in domestic violence.
Finally Tony provides an explanation of the six type of offenders. Each one with a different motive, method of operation and psychological processes involved. Instances of female child sex offenders are also discussed. Price $11.00
Procrastination and the Parent contract.
This DVD examines this area that is a problem for so many people. Some continually frustrate them self by not doing what would be to their benefit. Some just continually do this self defeating behaviour. This DVD shows the very basis of procrastination is the loss of understanding of what you actually want. You simply forget.
Procrastination results from a Parent ego state contract. All contracts to give up alcohol or drugs, to loose weight, work harder are Parent contracts to some degree. This DVD describes 3 levels of Motivational Interviewing. These techniques allow the individual to increase their desire or want to reduce or stop smoking, drinking, loose weight and so forth. 60 minutes workshop style. Price $20.00
Finite Marriage
This DVD presents some of Tony’s ideas after 15 years of couples counselling. Current theories of marriage and couples are significantly lacking and thus there is a strong need to do a reassessment of how we view this relationship. This is particularly so with the divorce rate hovering around 50 % in the western world. It is time to have a detailed look at what we are doing in couples counselling, how we understand marriage and what we expect of married people. We need to do something as the old and current approach is at best only mildly successful.
He provides a new and innovative theory of couples counselling and more importantly provides a new direction in how we can understand marriage in the western world. It looks at a commonly held approach to couples and how relationship change and develop over time. The clear problems and inconsistencies with it are demonstrated. 54 minutes in workshop style.. Price $20.00
Adolescence, Anger, and What To Do:
A Happy Teenager is not a Healthy Teenager
This book looks at adolescence, anger and feelings in general. Tony presents his new ideas on these topical subjects. Most people believe that a healthy teenager is a happy teenager. For most this is not so. Most teenagers are naturally defiant, rebellious, confused and insecure. To not feel these things is to miss out on a whole stage of human development. Anger is the most common problem emotion for humans. Tony shows how to understand it and deal with it so that one can access the positives in anger. The curative powers of anger are quite considerable. 50 pages. Price $20.00
Creative Feeling: How to understand and
deal with your child’s feelings
This book was originally written to show parents how to deal with their children’s feelings and emotions. It is also for adults who want to understand what feelings are and how to manage them with a few simple principles. This includes analysing what feelings you allow and prohibit for yourself, as well as analysing how you express various feelings. Topics covered are: temporary and character feelings, pure and complex feelings, healthy expressions of feelings, teaching feelings and problems with feelings. 53 pages.
Price: $20.00
How Kids Grow Up and Leave Home:
Two years old, four years old & adolescence
This book looks at the bonding and separation that humans go through in their lives. In particular it looks at how children separate from their parents and how parents separate from children. Written in a simple and easy to understand way it begins by describing how people become bonded and attached in a relationship. Exercises are provided for self examination about this. Presented are new ideas about the script imago which provides a new way of understanding relationships. Other topics covered include: child development and relationships, the separation cycle & how people show they have separation problems. 78 pages.
Price: $20.00
Booklets by Tony
Trauma debriefing for the emergency services: This book was commissioned by St. John Ambulance – West Australian Service. It is relevant for ambulance officers, paramedics and others in the emergency services such as the fire brigade, police, nurses and doctors. How people react to high stress and how to cope with it.
Treatment of character: Psychoseparation theory of emotion, how to have transference without a symbiosis, desexualizing the transference.
ORDER FORM
SPECIAL CHRISTMAS PRICES
2007
Qty Book / DVD Price Total
___ Feelings & anger mamnagement eBook(CD) $11 _____
___ Counselling: How and why eBook(CD) $11 _____
___ Child sex offenders eBook(CD) $11 _____
___ Procrastination DVD $20 _____
___ Finite Marriage DVD $20 _____
___ Adolescence, anger & what to do $20 _____
___ How kids grow up & leave home…. $20 _____
___ Creative feeling…. $20 _____
___ Trauma debriefing………….. $15 _____
___ The treatment of character………… $20 _____
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Tony White, 136 Loftus Street, North Perth, 6006.
Western Australia.
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Ph: [08] 9328 8993
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